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7 Ways To Save A Relationship

2008-05-13T10:10:00.000-07:00

Having rough times in your relationship? Everyone have these periods but don't think breaking up just because some small issues because there are many ways to save a relationship and I will point some of them.

1.Communication: The most important way to save a relationship is communication. You must talk with your partner, because communication is the thing that builds, improves or destroy a relationship. You can solve all the problems that you have in your relationship if you just communicate.

2.Forgiveness: Forgive the mistakes of your partner because we all make mistakes and you could make a wrong step too. You mustn't break up just because one mistake of your partner.

3.Trust: In every relationship, marriage, friendship, trust is the most important quality. If you want your partner to trust you, you must trust him too.

4.Show Your Feelings: If you want a serious relationship then you must show your partner that you care about him, that you love him.

5.Give Gifts: Even a flower can make your girlfriend love you more. In case you have a boyfriend, then I think a RC car or some collectibles will make him like a little boy.

6.Be Honest: You mustn't lie. If you really want a serious relationship and a long one, then you will shorten the life of your relationship. Why lie? I personally don't lie and I feel very good.The truth is better then a short time lie.

7.Sharing Your Problems: Share your problems with your partner. Try to open your soul in front of your partner because this will make your relationship stronger and it's the base of a solid relationship.

These are just a few ways to save a relationship, but all of them are efficient and if you use them you will have a strong and long relationship and you will save your relationship.

Relationship Advice

2008-01-15T23:03:00.000-08:00

Relationship Advice - Simple Tips and Tools to Keeping Your Love Life Energized

If you are in a relationship already you deserve congratulations. But, be warned, you have to work on it. A relationship requires effort from both parties to ensure it is blissful. Here is some relationship advice to ensure that your relationship remains blissful and on track.

1. Listen for more than words- The old saying is "actions speak louder than words." This is as true in a relationship as it is in any other circumstance. You need to pay attention to more than just what your partner is saying. You need to pay attention to their actions and their emotions to ensure the relationship stays on track.

2. Pay compliments- If you like something that your partner is doing, pay them a compliment. Everyone likes receiving compliments.

3. Actually listen- A conversation is not just waiting for your partner to close their mouth so you can open yours. In a truly blissful relationship, you will actually listen to the words coming out of your partner's mouth and the conversation will flow accordingly.

4. Make plans together- Find things that you can do together and make plans. A couple that plays together can stay together.

5. Have some alone time- This is actually an extremely important piece of advice. Before you got together you both had separate friends and separate lives. Sometimes you need some alone time, and some time apart. Building yourself as an individual will help you as a couple. It can bring you closer together.

6. Explore all levels of intimacy- Intimacy is not just about sex. Talk together, spend time alone and just talk about everything and anything.

7. Have Good Manners- You may have been together for a long time, but that does not give you the right to be rude. Say 'excuse me,' and don't burp or pass gas in front of your partner.

If you follow the 7 tips mentioned above, you should be well on your way to a blissful relationship.

Does He Love Me?

2008-01-15T22:58:00.000-08:00

Does He Love Me? 5 Proven Ways to Know

Does he really love me? Does he feel the same way I feel about him? These questions are obvious when you are trying to figure out whether a guy loves you or not. There is a big difference in loving and liking someone. Sometimes love is confused with a strong liking or attraction towards someone. There are several ways to figure out whether he loves you or not. Read on to find out what these ways are and you can figure out whether he loves you or not.

He cares for you- If he loves you he would show a lot of care and affection towards you every single time. He would care for you as if he was family and would get happy when you are joyful and sad when you are down. A smile on your face would always make him happy.

He treats you like a princess- Another ways to figure out whether he loves or not is to see the way he treats you. When a guy loves a girl he tends to treat her like a real queen. He would treat you with candle lights, open doors for you, he would try to do anything and everything just to make you happy and make you feel special due to his love for you.

He expresses it- The best way to figure out whether he loves you or not is by simply reading his body language. He would most definitely do little or big things just to show you that he loves you a lot and wants to be with you. He might be shy to actually say the real words but actions tend to speak louder than words.

Expensive gifts- This is one of the best determinant of whether he loves you or not. If he really loves you he would greet you with exceptionally expensive gifts. A guy would only spend money on expensive gifts when he really loves you.

Be The Perfect Boyfriend

2008-01-15T22:42:00.000-08:00

Be The Perfect Boyfriend

There is a little dreamer hiding in every one of us! Yes, some might deny this fact but we do dream of having the perfect boyfriend. The one that would make us feel so special that we would dearly indulge in his love and affection. But here are some tips for guys to become the perfect boyfriend.

Give her butterflies in the beginning -
Try rushing from her back and give her small and frequent kisses on her neck, or keep holding her until she finishes cutting the vegetables. If you wish to keep her happy, adore her and give her small remembrance moments that would remind her of you even when you're not around.

Make her laugh -
Women love to laugh a lot. The best way to keep her happy is make her laugh a lot. She will enjoy every moment with you.

Show her affection in tender ways -
Women love to feel pampered. We are aware of your tricks when you try giving us a backrub and slowly sneak your hands somewhere else. Try giving your woman a plain backrub instead or a warm oil massage. She will adore you.

Go out with her friends and play the role of token adorable guy -
The key to become a perfect boyfriend is to be a perfect man in public life too. If in case you are hanging out with your girlfriend's friends, try to show some affection with a peck on her cheek or holding her hand or letting her lean on your shoulder. She will love it.

Agree to share when you order food -
Guys might think that women are total clean freaks, well you are wrong again. Women love to share food that men eat and vice versa. From now onwards, let your French fries fill her up too.

Give her cards with stuff written in them -
Women love cards when you write something in personal handwriting. May it be a small poem or just a "Missing You" note? She will fall for you.

Make her trust you completely -
The best way to move about in a relationship is to analyze the woman you date and tell her your secrets. She will surely understand and trust you as you might disclose some of the most embarrassing moments.

Be The Perfect Girlfriend

2008-01-15T22:40:00.000-08:00

Be The Perfect Girlfriend

Ever wondered as what would make your man feel special? You might have tried getting him the best of what he can have, but still, does your relationship feel likes its not happening enough? You are at the right place and on the right page as how you can prove to be the perfect girlfriend for the man of your life.

Cook him a chef's special
It is said very fairly that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Try to prepare something with a little effort. Make sure you set the table right, with candles and aromatic senses in the dining room. The moment he returns back from work and sees all the pains you have taken to make him a special dinner, all he will do is rush up to you and kiss you. Believe it or not, this works.

Buy him something
Well we don't ask you to buy a Lamborghini or an estate. Small gifts work miracles. Pamper him by sending him some flowers while he's at work or knit him a sweater for winter. Take notice of the fact that you should personalize everything you buy for him. He will love to own them.

Ask for his help
On weekends, if you have planned to stay back home and your man does not have any other plan; ask for his help in the kitchen while cooking or in the garden. You can even ask him to fix something if broken and he will happily do it for you.

Get together for activities
You shall share all your favorites pass times that you love to do as well as ask him about them. Suppose he likes mountaineering, trekking or surfing, try indulging in those activities along with him. But make sure that he reciprocates and does the same while you plan to do your favorite pass times.

Know his likes and dislikes
Every one of us is choosy about the way we like to lead our lives. It is important for you to know and understand the likes and dislikes of your man. Avoid doing those actions which will annoy him. But if you really need to do them yourself, better ask for his opinion. This will make him feel that you care for his emotions.

Embrace him
It is a typical tendency of men that whenever they are annoyed or had a bad day; they never tend to speak up like women always do. In a situation like this, if your man asks to leave him alone, better do so or rather give him a warm tight hug and leave the room. He will come back to you once he had thought of the proper solution.

Make a Girl Fall in Love

2008-01-15T22:35:00.000-08:00

How To Make a Girl Fall in Love With You

You may have read or heard from your friends about ways to pick up girls. It does not always sound easy, though some guys make it look like it is. How does it work? How to make a girl fall in love with you? Well, if you have not had any luck you had better read on.

For some getting a girl of their dreams is like getting the car of their dreams. While the analogy may seem to work the process is in no way similar. You can not bargain or haggle, she is a human being! If you are in love you will find that only the words that come from your heart can work ordinary words stand no chance. Also you need to be big and strong hearted. Whether you yourself are big or strong does not necessarily have a bearing at all. A faint heart is always going to get you nowhere in your search for love.

Let us take it easy and slow. What is the first step? Making an impression, right? The first step in any exercise of romance is making the best possible first impression. If this fails then you have possibly had it with that girl unless you can afford plastic surgery or something. So what can you do to make a good first impression? Should you worry about it a lot? After all, you now know how important it is. Okay, do not sweat. This is not Mission Impossible. You have seen guys and their ways to pick up girls. You may notice that not all of them are proper Toms. As in its not necessary for you to talk, dress, and act in a loud and brash manner to get a decent girls attention.

You need to know how to make a girl fall in love with you. Try being unique, it is not that hard seeing how every human being is unique. Here are some pointers to go along with the uniqueness thing:

Dress decently. Do not dress in such a way as to look arrogant. Do not become a wallflower either. Be a man of taste.

Mind you language in front of her. Do not be obscene. You will just end up looking churlish, immature and cheap. Be a man of culture.

Avoid bad habits like smoking and excessive drinking. You will just look like a loser.

Take it easy. Do not rush things and try to respect her as a human being. Romance will happen for sure then. Good luck!

5 Key Tips For Couples

2008-01-15T22:31:00.000-08:00

5 Key Tips For Couples - Help With How To Make Your Relationship Work

Are you having a relationship trouble? Do you dream of a better longer lasting relationship? Do you want to make it work? These 5 simple tips will help you, no matter what stage your relationship is at now. Anyone who wants a strong and trusting relationship, read on...

1. Be open and honest with your partner. Lying and concealing the truth will only damage your relationship. Being closer will allow each other to grow closer. Even the little things count.

2. Keeping your word is a big one, if you say you will be home at a certain time, than be on time. Or at least let your partner know that you will be late. Keep your promises. If you say you will do something, than keep your word and do it. This is a foundation to a strong relationship.

3. Make plans with each other, taking their interests in mind. Sometimes you will not want or like your partner's interests. This works both ways and should not be one sided. This all shows your partner that you do love them and builds a strong relationship.

4. Focus on your partners strengths. Make them feel good about them selves. Tell them how sexy they look, how smart they are and how much you love them, for them being them. This is a healthy way to show your love; by raising their confidence.

5. Listen to and respect your partner's feelings, what they want and need. If you have problems with anything, than tell them now, do not wait. Compromise between each other, do not let your relationship to be one sided. A relationship involves two people. If your partner does not respect your wishes, than maybe you are not right for each other.

Love and Heartbroken Quotes

2008-01-15T22:21:00.000-08:00

Love and Heartbroken Quotes - Worst 5

There's also a lot of quotes out there that will most likely just make you feel worse. Most of them are self loathing and will make you want to cringe. We'll start with...

1. "So from now on, when you think of me, just remember that I could've been the best thing you've ever had." -

Right. So why did you two break up? Stop trying to bring other people down with you. The only thing that comes out of this mindset is negativity, which won't win you any points with anyone. Instead of putting effort into making your ex feel bad, direct your efforts into bettering yourself and finding a new lover instead.

2. "Hold my hand, just one more time, so I can remind myself why it is that I can't get over you." -

Have you ever slept with an ex just for the sex? Unless you're over them, it's a bad idea. Don't do anything that will make you desire your ex. All it will do is make the heartache even worse. Be strong, and resist any temptation to please your ex in the hopes that they'll change their mind.

3. "Sometimes it's better to be alone. No one can hurt you that way." -

If you want to be alone, that's fine. But you'll be missing out on a lot of fun times. You may feel safer, but not taking risks and worrying about looking stupid all the time will make life boring.

4. "The worst feeling in the world is knowing you've been used and lied to." -

Yes, but some of the best feelings in the world come from knowing you've got a partner who'll always love you and who you'll always love. They don't just come out of thin air, and to find them you need to give people a chance. Just mark it off as a learning experience and hope the next person is better for you.

5. "I just want someone to come up to me and kiss me and tell me they're in love with me. I don't just want it though. I need it. I'm desperate for it." -

This quote I'm sure most of us can relate with, but it's something we need to work on. If you need to always feel loved and wanted, you might be putting too much stress on yourself and your partner. The best thing you can do is learn how to become more independent. I'm not saying you shouldn't fall in love with anyone, but if you need a lover to make you happy, and you lose them, what will happen? You'll become unhappy and your life might suddenly become empty. If you can fill your life up with other things you love and not rely on a lover for all your happiness, break-ups will be a lot less painful for you.

Well written quotes can be great things to learn from. Sometimes you can pull so much knowledge from just a few words.

But make sure you learn from quotes that actually do contain wisdom; a common trend in the five quotes listed here is that they all have a defeatist attitude, which will neither make you feel better nor bring you any closer to winning back your ex. I wish you all the best with your heartbreak, and no matter how tough it is, stay positive.

Love, Friend n Jealous

2008-01-15T22:15:00.000-08:00

Love, Secret Friends and Jealousy

If you really love someone, you wish to possess this person, to share a unique relationship with them and never have rivals.

Of course, you feel jealous when someone special is near the person you love, especially if you cannot be there or if you are afraid that they may be "secret friends"...

If you know that you have many rivals because the person you love is also loved by many others, then you are always suffering when a rival appears near him or her.

Things are worse when you don't have a relationship with the person you love... yet.

But even if you are together, the existence of many rivals is not pleasant.

Perhaps you are the kind of person who is really too jealous, even without reason.

In any case, we must do something about this problem, because jealousy makes you suffer and on the other hand, when you show to the person you love how jealous you are, you are revealing your weakness, and this is not a good thing.

You must control your behaviour and never show your jealousy, even if you are very jealous because if you'll show your weakness you may be ridiculed or manipulated.

On the other hand, if they know that you are jealous, they will never show you a sign of anything that might upset you because they are afraid of your reaction. Be cool. Don't panic only because someone you hate is saying hello to the person you love. Even if you feel very bad, don't reveal your feelings. You have to hide this feeling, so that the person you love feels free with you and shares everything with you.

However, you must get rid of this feeling, and not only hide it forever.

No matter how many times you can be near your love and prevent certain meetings with other people, you cannot be always near him or her, even if you are married. Therefore, you have to be self-confident. You must trust your companion and feel secure even when a thousand rivals appear in your way.

Trust the person you love. Stop torturing yourself with suspicious thoughts and simply feel fine, and believe that he or she is loyal and loves you as much as you love him or her.

However, keep an eye out for any signs. You can always pay attention to all details, just in case something happens but you never notice it because you were too confident.

Be confident but don't be naïve.

You must show indifference to all your rivals, especially in front of the person you love. This way they will never have the idea of provoking your jealousy... because you don't care.

You should really be self-confident and never believe that your lover has "secret friends," but if you can't be that indifferent, at least pretend.

On the other hand, don't overdo it! Show to your love that you care for him or her of course! Show him or her that you noticed that somebody else has another intention and you didn't like it if this is the case. You are not silly and you are not indifferent to your lover!

However, be cool. Simply express a normal level of jealousy when necessary but keep an attitude of total indifference to all the rivals you may have most of the time, because this is the best for you.

Apology Love Letter

2008-01-15T22:11:00.000-08:00

How To Write An Apology Love Letter

In all relationships, there will come a time where disputes and disagreements crop up and can result in tense, ugly shouting matches. The situation can last for days or even weeks. If the disagreement is not resolved, it can crop up anytime, even years later. If the disagreement is severe, it may even impact trust in the relationship. The key point is that if the relationship is important enough then one should address the disagreement as soon as possible.

There are many ways to address disagreements depending on the severity of the argument. Some of these ways are self resolution, open discussion and third party mediation. These resolutions methods are wide and are discussion topics by themselves. However, I like to cover one method under open discussion which has proven effective time and time again.

Open discussion is an attempt to have 'a meeting of minds'. It is a verbal open discussion where each one gets to voice out their feelings and opinions. If one jumps directly into an open discussion without a preparatory set-up, negative feelings can often crop up and turn the discussion into an unproductive one. A better approach would be to write an apology love letter to open up for a discussion later.

There are benefits in writing an apology love letter. One, you have the time to collect your thoughts and weigh the implications. You can rewrite, and reword when you feel it is inappropriate. Two, writing down your feelings will also help you identify clearly the issues. It will also help you calm your own feelings.

Before writing, you must be very clear in your mind that you need to apologize. Apology does not mean admitting you are wrong. Apology can mean that the approach you used to deal with the situation is wrong and has upset the other party. However, if you are wrong, then by all means, admit that you are wrong. So, here is a structure which you can write your apology love letter. I will assume the other party is a male.

Your first paragraph is to write to say that you are sorry that you have created a situation which resulted in an uneasy situation and that it was not your intention. Second, say that the issues you raised up are important to you and need his support to see your view point. Say that you need his trust and guidance.

The second paragraph is to focus on the issue. Discuss only one issue and the most important one. State the issue and then explain how the issue has impacted you - your feelings, the implications, your self-esteem or your relationship. The focus is on how the issue has impacted you, and not the other person. This approach prevents you from using the 'blame-game' technique, which you should avoid at all cost.

The final paragraph is to reassure the other person that you value him in the relationship. Say how much he means to you in your own life. His guidance, his presence and his support are very important to you. End the letter by apologizing for the situation and that you need his guidance and understanding. If you like, end the letter by saying "I need you". This makes a very significant impact.

The main objective of an apology love letter is to calm and soothe the other person's feelings and then get them into a more conducive open discussion. You should avoid using an apology letter to explain everything. An apology love letter is just the means of getting the affected party together for an open discussion. Try it and be amazed at how well it works.

Love vs. Lust

2008-01-15T22:06:00.000-08:00

Love vs. Lust

There is a great contrast between love and lust. Lust is more of a sexual or greedy feeling, while love is more of a secure and content filled feeling we get from giving and receiving. Lust does not have to be something sexual, it can be a greedy desire for more money and power, etc. But for this article, I am using it in its sexual context.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 sums up the common traits and variances of love and lust.

LOVE is kind = considerate, caring, giving, thoughtful, understanding

Lust is envy = jealous, greed, spite, resentment,

LOVE is not proud = humble, submissive, meek, modest

Lust is self-seeking = selfish, rebellious, rude, egotistical, hateful,

LOVE rejoices in the truth = God is love, Love is God = Wisdom, Holy Spirit,

Lust delights in evil = Satan, sin, wicked, iniquitous, immoral, dishonest

Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 1John 4:8 AND

Dear friends, since God so loved us, we ought to also love one another. 1 John 4:11

The world has a superficial and selfish view of love, which has contaminated our understanding of what REAL LOVE is. The culture believes that love is something that makes us FEEL good and that it’s acceptable to sacrifice moral principles to obtain such love. But in doing so this culture IS NOT obtaining the love characteristic but the lustful ones.

Love involves unselfish acts. Faith is the foundation of God’s message. By putting our complete faith in God gives us the freedom to love others completely.

Matthew 5:27-28 says, “You have heard that it was said, “do not commit adultery, but I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right hand causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for you whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.”

When Jesus said to throw away you right hand or gouge out your eye, he didn’t mean in the literal sense because even a blind person can lust. Jesus’ thinking was that if that were the only choice, then it would be better to go into heaven with one eye or one hand then to go to hell with two hands or two eyes.

Acting out lustful desires is very harmful in four ways.

1. Lustful desires destroys marriage

2. Lustfulness is rebelliousness to God

3. Lustfulness always hurts someone

4. Lustful acts leads to premarital sex

Jesus said the desire to have sex with someone other than your spouse is mental adultery. Therefore, If lustful desires are in our thoughts, then they most likely will come out in our actions!

“For where you treasure is, there your heart will be also.” Luke 12:34

In essence, it’s in what we THINK. What we crave and lust for in life shows our values and morals. What we think in our heart and mind comes back out in our actions.

Lustful thinking can turn into

1. Adultery = divorce

2. Premarital sex = genital diseases = lack of sexual interest with spouse

3. Sin = death

Sexual immorality is a temptation we all must face on a daily basis. God doesn’t forbid sexual sins just to be difficult. God knows its power to destroy people lives physically and spiritually. God wants to protect us from damaging ourselves with immoral sexual desires. Sex outside of the marriage relationship always hurts someone. It hurts God because it shows that we care more about our own lustful desires than Him.

Paul said in Corinthians, “Do you no know that your body is the a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price (Jesus Christ death freed us from sin). Therefore, honor God with your body” 1 Corinthians 6: 19-20

Many people believe they have the right to do whatever they want with their own bodies. And they think this is freedom, but really, they are enslaved to their own lustful and sinful desires – they are in bondage and slave to their desires.

When we become Christian’s (Christ ones) the Holy Spirit lives in us and fills us up, and we no longer own our own bodies, but we belong to God.

Do you love others like God wants you to love?

Whoever loves his brother lives in the light, and there is nothing in him to make him stumble. 1 John 2:10

Who Said 'I Love You' First?

2008-01-15T22:02:00.000-08:00

Who Said 'I Love You' First?

How to get rid of a guy - fast!

(Mimi, have you lost your marbles? Why are you writing about how to get rid of a guy?)

Because today's article is about what NOT to do if you want to keep the interest of a man who has not yet made a commitment to you.

This is written especially for the women who have written me who are very upset that they have made an embarrassing mistake with a man, or that they want a certain man which they do not currently have.

I see a lot of pain in the emails I receive lately. It makes me sad to see my readers hurting. So this particular message is for these women - who in my opinion do not appreciate how special THEY are. They are focused on how special a certain man is and that is all they are able to think about for the moment.

Of course, men do not think the way women do. When a woman is in a relationship, she is focusing on him and on her emotions.

Emotion is certainly present for a man, but in a different way. Men and women each have built-in triggers which the wrong words at the wrong time can set off.

If you set off the wrong trigger in a man, you can be almost certain that he will be finding any excuse to head out the door to start looking for a woman who is not so easy to attain.

In my opinion, the woman should never be the first one to say "I love you."

You may be feeling this love for him; it may be true; and it may be true for him. But until HE says these words to you, he is not ready for it. (Also, be sure your BS meter is running and you aren't hearing those words in an attempt to woo you briefly and then drop you flat. Hey, it still happens ALL the time - and to younger and younger women and girls. That bothers me greatly.)

When you are in the mood to say "I love you," you may be thinking that you are willing to lay your heart on the line for a man you have fallen for. That is a noble thought and I understand it well. And who will be feeling really bad shortly thereafter? You will, if you make the mistake of saying those three little words first.

When a man truly loves you and is in love with you - the kind of man you want, that is - he wants to shout it from the housetops. He wants to show you off to everyone. If you are not seeing THAT kind of reaction - then distance yourself emotionally.

I'm not telling you to be rude or unkind or to even stop seeing the guy. I'm telling you that you need to be your own best friend and protect yourself. What's more, you need to be in the frame of mind that whether this man likes you, loves you, or not - is not going to make or break your life!

Yes, you might get your heart broken over someone. But you know what? You will move on. You will get over this man and find that there is more to life than any one particular man - no matter how special he is to you. Trust me that this is true.

Instead of focusing on how special a man is, focus on how special and unique YOU are. Show off your best qualities by making yourself the best person you can be, inside and outside. Trust that when the time is right for you, a good relationship that is worth waiting for will happen in your life.

Now, for you purists out there, and I know you're out there, yes. I know that there are men out there who will not bolt and run if you say "I love you" first. (Gotta love those guys, too.)

However, those same men will bolt and run if you have been acting clingy and as if your entire emotional future depends on their acceptance of your undying love.

Besides, if you say 'I love you' first, that is kind of like peeking at the Christmas presents. It spoils all their plans. They want to do the wooing and pursuing - don't ever forget that. If they are not actively wooing you, they are not interested in you.

For some readers, all of this is well known information that they already follow in their lives. But many, many of my readers need to hear this. Being head over heels in love makes us vulnerable - and makes us do crazy things. One of the craziest times of all is right after a divorce - if that's your situation, hang on to your hat - be careful.

Attract The Right Man

2008-01-15T21:54:00.000-08:00

Attract The Right Man

Are you aware that every THOUGHT creates some sort of ATTRACTION?

Have you ever asked yourself why the mugger picks a certain person?

Each of us emit signals like radar with our thoughts and those around us pick up those signals and act in accordance.

In matters of the heart it is very important to realize this. It is through no coincidence that you ATTRACT over and over the same type of men and the same dramas repeat again and again.

If you are sitting there thinking "I'm fat, I'm fat" you can be sure the other person is too!

Maybe you are fat or maybe you are just feeling fat that day, but what about choosing better thoughts like "my hair looks great" or "I feel sexy in this outfit".

Improving your thoughts by focusing on your good qualities will;

1. Boost your confidence

2. Draw people to you who appreciate your good qualities

Also, if you focus on all the great things you loved about past relationships it will bring more of those things you loved into your next relationship. Making a list is a very good way to help focus the mind and become clear on the things you want (NOT THE THINGS YOU DON'T).

Start treating yourself with love and respect TODAY and you will notice men coming into your life and doing the same.

Never settle for second best, you are as worthy as your thoughts will allow.

Believe you are worthy of all your desires and they shall be yours.

Believe in love and love will come your way.

Say It With Flowers

2008-01-15T21:50:00.000-08:00

Say It With Flowers

Flowers have become universal symbols of emotions. Whenever there is a special occasion, people buy flowers to celebrate or to let someone know that they are special. People, especially men...

Unbeknown to many, the kind of flowers that you give to actually have gist. Your Valentine's gift for example of red roses conveyed the note right for it means I love you.' Other flowers convey different gusts. Here are some of the more trendy ones and notes that each kind gives. Read on and find out what to give your loved one the next time you buy a garland.

Acacia (fair) - furtive love

Amaryllis - describes the flawless lady, gorgeous, nervous and proud
From this point forward, we will let you in on little secrets that will help you implement this subject into your life.

Ambrosia - means love being yielded

Rosemary - be sensitive when bountiful this flower as it conveys hatred

Indigo bell - as it means modesty, bluebells is a amazing gift when aphorism poor

Buttercup - conveys reserves, not only of important equipment but of emotions

Camellia - means flawless loveliness and thanks, which would be an amazing thank you gift. Red camellia expresses excellence while the pink sort means extraordinary loveliness

Carnation - means complete, immersed love. The red ones expresses love, the ashen ones, appeal and good blessing and the pink one, being forever on the object
Chrysanthemum - this has totally an array of gusts depending on the paint. Fair denotes honesty while red conveys love. Fair Chrysanthemums have a damaging gist, hurt love.

Cornflower - denotes sympathy

Daffodil - means regard for a self and wish

Dahlia - denotes thanks and dignity

Daisy - this fair flower symbolizes loyal love and innocence

Daphne - denotes fame and glory

Edelweiss - signifies daring decent courage

Leaf - conveys fascination and honesty

Forget-me-not - totally factually means do not forget me. It also signifies reliance love and good memories

Gardenia - denotes refinement of actions

Hawthorn - conveys wish

Holly - a great gift for wives and even husbands as the flower denotes domestic happiness

Honeysuckle - signifies happiness

Hyacinth - When you want to say poor, transmit this as it means "forgive me"
Honeysuckle - another brand of flower that conveys generous and committed affection and happiness with a self.

Ivy - means lasting loyalty, loyalty and even wedding

Iris - wisdom, reliance and wish

Jasmine - tells the self that you are bountiful them to that she has thanks and thanks. Fair Jasmine denotes amiability

Jonquil - If you yield the affection, transmit this kind of flower

Lilac - conveys loyalty

Blue - the ashen sort denotes childish innocence while the purple one signifies first love

Lily of the Valley - symbolizes beauty, joviality, and happiness

Magnolia - denotes nobleness of ghost

Marigold - has damaging gusts: grief and discontent

Mistletoe - perhaps the sense why mistletoes are totally notorious during Christmas as it means "kiss me"

Morning Glory - denotes goodbye or departure with affection

Array flower - which is regularly worn in wedding garlands, symbolizes chastity and eternal love

Orchid - collectively, orchids denote magnificence, love, beauty, and refinement

Pansies - means consideration

Periwinkle - indigo periwinkle means early friendship while the ashen one denotes harmony

Poppy - this truly trendy flower have different gusts for its different paints. The oriental one means silence while the red denotes consolation. The ashen symbolizes tranquility and Consolation while the fair denotes wealth and victory.

Primrose - although totally gorgeous, primroses have damaging gusts. Usually, it conveys the note "I cannot be with you." The dusk primrose denotes in loyalty.

Rose - although rose will commonly means "I love you," each paint conveys a gist. Fair, for example, expresses purity and innocence, fair, friendship, pink happiness and red, love and love. Even rosebuds have gist, innocence and purity.

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True Love or Fake Love

2008-01-11T23:11:00.000-08:00

HOW TO KNOW IF IT IS REAL

Finding out if what you have is true love can be tricky. Feelings must be analyzed before they can be identified for what they truly are. The best way to find out how you really feel about someone is to sit down and dissect the relationship.

Signs Of Not Real Love
Possible signs that it isn't true love is you... think of your partner as absolutely perfect are concerned with your needs first need to spend all your free time with your partner quickly became infatuated with your partner tend to be jealous easily can't come to a compromise after fighting

Signs Of A True Love
Possible signs that what you have may be true love is you... accept your partner and their flaws are concerned with your partner's needs first are comfortable being apart from one another slowly fell for your partner trust your partner completely are able to resolve a fight and grow stronger through it

Knowing what women want

2007-12-31T21:05:00.000-08:00

HOW TO PLEASE A WOMAN - KNOWING WHAT WOMEN WANT
Okay, so it is true. Women can be complicated creatures. But what human being isn’t? Although we each have our own needs, quirks and foibles, when it comes down to it, there are a few basic things that every woman wants. Now it’s up to the men to pay attention.

It’s amazing to me how many articles, television shows, movies, songs, and books exist about male and female relationships. And how sadly accurate many of them are. With all this material out there, why do so many problems still exist between men and women?

The Gender Gap

Men aren’t listening. And I don’t really blame them. I don’t even like Sex and the City so I can’t expect my boyfriend to faithfully watch every episode and quote it like some almighty dating bible. Although that show is full of things that men would (rightfully) cringe at, there are points to heed. Namely, cliches exist for a reason.

The things that seem painfully obvious to women are going unnoticed by men, likely because they haven’t spent hours happily identifying with women indulging in insecurities and sharing laughs about terrible dates. So women – give your man a break here and realize that although you feel inundated with ideas for dating, romance and sex, many men have put the blinders on because those things just don’t seem important to them. That is, until they are left out in the cold, heartbroken because the girl of their dreams gave them the boot for seemingly no reason.

Pay Attention Boys

Here’s the thing – women want a few basic things: trust, loyalty, friendship, laughs, respect. And a satisfying sex life. Nothing earth shattering.

Here’s where we get annoyed – when things about women that seem built into pop culture, escape your minds. I understand that you may not want to watch Oprah and see every “chick flick” out there but there are certain things that you really should know by now.

To clarify:

· We do not like to be called fat.
· We need foreplay.
· We like to be called if you are going to be late.
These are three little things that can make a huge difference in a relationship. Maybe they don’t seem like a big deal to you men or maybe you don’t understand, but we don’t need you to. Just do them. Please.

Be a Gentleman

If you want to go above and beyond the basics, it’s also good to keep in mind that women like to be treated nicely. Again, I wouldn’t think you’d have to be told and I’m sure many of you don’t, but lately I’ve been hearing some pretty incredible stories from friends. In one story, a guy asked my friend out, took her to a bar, ordered her a drink and then summoned her to come pay for hers. Boy was she swept off her feet!

Don’t get me wrong, neither she, nor I, nor most women are looking for Mr. Fancy Pants to wine and dine us and spend all his money on us. Negative stereotypes of men and women don’t help us get any closer to understanding each other. It’s not the saved money and free drinks we appreciate, it’s the chivalry, the extra effort. That little gesture that says I care. It doesn’t have to be monetary, it can be holding a door, a compliment, even just turning off the cell phone while you are out together.

Mutual Appreciation

I’m sure no man goes out with the intention of annoying a girl or being insensitive. There are differences between how men and women relate, so it should be expected on both ends by now that things don’t always progress seamlessly.

The effort really does make a difference. We are all from different walks of life and have different expectations for each other and for life in general. Women want to be appreciated, as I’m sure men do. It may seem crazy to you if a girl flies off the handle because you were an hour late, but the thing is, women can be a little crazy. Evidently unbeknownst to some of you, women spend hours primping and preparing for dates, for our boyfriends, even for our husbands. Legs must be shaved, makeup applied, hair done so that we feel attractive and sexy for you!

If a woman does something nice for you and you notice, (please tell me you notice), tell her. If she cooks you dinner, try to return the favor. Be honest and supportive and she will do the same for you.

Sign that he is not the one

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After enduring weeks of single girl sympathy, you finally agreed to let your cousin set you up with that "great guy" she knows. Since you said yes, you figure you might as well make the most of it and keep an open mind. But, just in case, you ask your best friend to call your cell about a half hour into the date so you can fake an emergency if needed. Actually, it's not even faking. Bad dates are emergencies. However, lucky for you, there are warning signs that the person you are out with is, and always will be, a terrible date. If you are unlucky enough to experience any of them first hand, make sure to answer your friend's call saying, "Oh no! That's terrible! I'll be right over."

He's Late

This one is pretty basic. If a guy doesn't have enough enthusiasm for the date to actually show up on time, you shouldn't expect to be impressed by the rest of the night. Obviously, there are times when you just can't help it, but he'd better have a good reason if he shows up at your door even 15 minutes late.

He's Not Dressed to Impress

You've spent hours on your hair and a pile of rejected clothes covers your bed. You are finally dressed to the nines in the perfect outfit and ready for the evening. You open the door and are surprised to be greeted by your date in torn jeans and a stained t-shirt. You doubt he's washed his hair today (or yesterday). You expected a nice night out and he shows up looking like he's dressed for a monster truck rally.

He Takes you to a Monster Truck Rally

Original and unique first dates are a great way to stand out from the rest of the fish in the sea, but there are exceptions. He should at least do a little research into your style before he plans an unusual activity. Sure, he might really love hot dogs and monster trucks, but if you were thinking fine dining and theatre, there's bound to be trouble.The fact that he didn't bother to ask your opinion beforehand (or at least get the matchmaker's thoughts on the plan) doesn't bode well for how he's going to respect your needs and wants in the future.

He Expects You to Pay

It's not absolutely necessary that he pick up the check. Along with all those useful freedoms like voting, the feminist movement also brought us the responsibility of at least offering to pay for half the date. Most guys still think it's chivalrous to pick up the tab for the first date and there's nothing wrong with indulging his male ego (after an appropriate amount of protesting of course). No girl is expecting a man to drop a fortune on a first date, but a guy who expects you to pay for everything without lifting a finger to open his own wallet doesn't give off the impression that he cares much what you think of him. In fact, he probably won't see a second date (and maybe not even the end of the first one). A good rule of thumb for payment is: whoever asks for the date, pays for the date.

He Talks About his Ex

So maybe you escaped the monster truck rally, but instead of choking on exhaust fumes and standing in a sea of drunken mullets, you get to hear all about his wonderful or horrible ex-girlfriend. Bonus trouble points if he had a nasty breakup and insists on sharing the details with you.If he refers to his ex even once with a derogatory insult that you wouldn't call your worst enemy, run for the hills now. It's not a good sign if he can't say anything nice about the last woman with whom he had a significant relationship.

How Can I Put This.?

He's a Weirdo. Yes, it's time to weed out those with personal quirks that you find distasteful or generally unacceptable. This will be different for every woman of course (some chicks really dig witchcraft, guys that live with their moms or Dungeons and Dragons enthusiasts). Regardless, that tight knot that is forming in your stomach while you listen to his ideas, habits and activities, should not be ignored.

Awkward Moments vs. Awkward Hours

When he's not filling you in on his wacky life, the conversation stalls into silence or unintelligible grunting. It's normal to have a little awkwardness or difficulty getting conversation to flow in the beginning of a first date, but if after a few minutes, he still can't think of a single question to ask about your life or keep up with the conversation, it's time to call it a night.

If it's twenty minutes in and you've run out of things to talk about, you probably don't have much of a future together.

Love & Lust the difference

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Lust is always mistaken as love. Lust is passion. Lust is desire. Lust is therefore not love. It can be difficult for the inexperienced to distinguish between the two emotions. Especially, in the beginning of a relationship when sexual feelings are stronger.

Love
Love is the emotional attachment in a relationship. Love is the sincere feeling of affection and devotion that you have for your partner. It is a deep, profound, and pure emotion that does not sway easily. Love is an emotion that can take years to build up and can only be felt for someone you hold dear.

Lust
And then there is lust. Lust can be felt towards anybody with a sufficient amount of sexual appeal. Lust is so sensual in it's raw nature of being and can be formed instantly. It is a strong, excessive craving for sexual intimacy that can be difficult to control.
It is probably lust if sex is the main basis of your relationship. Can't keep your hands off each other? Is sex the only thing that you look forward to with this person? It is probably lust. A relationship founded on lust will only last as long as the two people involved are sexually attracted to one another; this can wear off fast.

I love you in other language

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HOW TO SAY I LOVE YOU IN DIFFERENT LANGUAGES

WAYS TO SAY I LOVE U

English - I love you

Afrikaans - Ek het jou lief

Albanian - Te dua

Arabic - Ana behibak (to male)

Arabic - Ana behibek (to female)

Armenian - Yes kez sirumen

Bambara - M'bi fe

Bangla - Aamee tuma ke bhalo aashi

Belarusian - Ya tabe kahayu

Bisaya - Nahigugma ako kanimo

Bulgarian - Obicham te

Cambodian - Soro lahn nhee ah

Cantonese Chinese - Ngo oiy ney a

Catalan - T'estimo

Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse

Chichewa - Ndimakukonda

Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)

Creol - Mi aime jou

Croatian - Volim te

Czech - Miluji te

Danish - Jeg Elsker Dig

Dutch - Ik hou van jou

Esperanto - Mi amas vin

Estonian - Ma armastan sind

Ethiopian - Afgreki'

Faroese - Eg elski teg

Farsi - Doset daram

Filipino - Mahal kita

Finnish - Mina rakastan sinua

French - Je t'aime, Je t'adore

Frisian - Ik hâld fan dy

Gaelic - Ta gra agam ort

Georgian - Mikvarhar

German - Ich liebe dich

Greek - S'agapo

Gujarati - Hoo thunay prem karoo choo

Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw

Hawaiian - Aloha wau ia oi

Hebrew - Ani ohev otah (to female)

Hebrew - Ani ohev et otha (to male)

Hiligaynon - Guina higugma ko ikaw

Hindi - Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae

Hmong - Kuv hlub koj

Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta

Hungarian - Szeretlek

Icelandic - Eg elska tig

Ilonggo - Palangga ko ikaw

Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu

Inuit - Negligevapse

Irish - Taim i' ngra leat

Italian - Ti amo

Japanese - Aishiteru

Kannada - Naanu ninna preetisuttene

Kapampangan - Kaluguran daka

Kiswahili - Nakupenda

Konkani - Tu magel moga cho

Korean - Sarang Heyo

Latin - Te amo

Latvian - Es tevi miilu

Lebanese - Bahibak

Lithuanian - Tave myliu

Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu

Malayalam - Njan Ninne Premikunnu

Mandarin Chinese - Wo ai ni

Marathi - Me tula prem karto

Mohawk - Kanbhik

Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik

Nahuatl - Ni mits neki

Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni

Norwegian - Jeg Elsker Deg

Pandacan - Syota na kita!!

Pangasinan - Inaru Taka

Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo

Persian - Doo-set daaram

Pig Latin - Iay ovlay ouyay

Polish - Kocham Ciebie

Portuguese - Eu te amo

Romanian - Te iubesc

Russian - Ya tebya liubliu

Scot Gaelic - Tha gra\dh agam ort

Serbian - Volim te

Setswana - Ke a go rata

Sign Language - ,\,,/ (represents position of fingers when signing 'I Love You')

Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan

Sioux - Techihhila

Slovak - Lu`bim ta

Slovenian - Ljubim te

Spanish - Te quiero / Te amo

Swahili - Ninapenda wewe

Swedish - Jag alskar dig

Swiss-German - Ich lieb Di

Tagalog - Mahal kita

Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li

Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe

Tamil - Nan unnai kathalikaraen

Telugu - Nenu ninnu premistunnanu

Thai - Chan rak khun (to male)

Thai - Phom rak khun (to female)

Turkish - Seni Seviyorum

Ukrainian - Ya tebe kahayu

Urdu - mai aap say pyaar karta hoo

Vietnamese - Anh ye^u em (to female)

Vietnamese - Em ye^u anh (to male)

Welsh - 'Rwy'n dy garu di

Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh

Yoruba - Mo ni fe